Recently a friend of mine, who is a disabled veteran,
was asking a celebrity for an autographed picture. This celebrity not only
refused to give this person, who fought to protect our freedom, the autograph
they said that they and others were sick of this veteran being a stalker and
asking for freebies.
Now, let me be clear on this, though I thought this
celebrity was being an asshat for being
so mercenary and denying this veteran his signature, I’m more pissed about this
person daring to insult and libel this veteran by calling him a stalker.
The thing is I see this sort of thing a lot in the horror
community, especially among low grade so-called actresses, poser scream queens,
and zgrade horror hostesses. It seems like these inferior entertainers think
that it gives them more creds if they can post on their Facebooks, My Spaces,
and Google+s that they have lots of “stalkers”, because of course having
stalkers means that you are really somebody among the horror social elite.
Now don’t get me wrong, there are actresses and celebrities
or even minor celebrities who have had real honest to goodness stalkers. I,
myself, had a woman who got me fired from my job, tried to burn the lawn on my
house, tried to run down me and my niece, and left my cat skinned alive and
dying on my front porch. This bullshit lasted for seven years and I ended up
suing her ass over it. Also, look at Heather Langencamp (A Nightmare on Elm Street, New
Nightmare) and her year of terror facing a stalker who was threatening her
family. Or how about Adrienne King (Friday the 13th) who spent years
in constant fear of a stalker, so much so she left the United States to get
away. I love to see what Heather and Adrienne would think about these fucks
calling every Tom, Dick, and Harry a stalker just because these people do
something these bitches don’t like. One reason I thoroughly RESENT Elissa
Dowling and Michelle Shields is because they both stabbed ME in the back then
had the incredible nerve to call me a stalker, which is so totally unfair and
out there in regard to anything I actually did to them. Oh, and given the FACT
that I had to deal with the real thing it makes me want to blow every time I
think about it.
In regard to Elissa, who I had been friends with for three
years, she decided that she was going to sell me out to Bloody-Disgusting so
that they would promote her crappy career. The thing is she actually got on
messageboards and chats, under her nickname Razorected, and talked smack about
me as a writer and against Cory Stevens film, which I was promoting at the
time. I decided she needed to get a
taste of her own medicine, except I was going to stick to the truth. I went
around the internet and copied every review I could find of her films and
reposted them all together in multiple threads around the internet under the
title “Avoid like the Plague”. Ok, that
wasn’t exactly nice. All her reviews were negative and showed her as a horrid
actress who did twelve films with the worst director in horror, Ulli Lommel.
Still, I didn’t write the reviews and they were honest third party reviews of
her work…therefore the truth. Still, people including Elissa herself called me
a stalker. Sorry, posting the truth isn’t being a stalker it’s being truthful.
Now, onto Miss Michelle Shields. Michelle called me a stalker because she
posted a reply to a friends post using her “secret” profile (Michelle M
Shields) she created for her so-called “real friends” and I accidentally (I
repeat ACCIDENTALLY, not that I was looking for it) found it, got curious and
checked it out. On this profile Michelle says that her other profile (Michelle
Shields) is for people she “uses” for
promotion. Well, people, I was of course not happy to learn this. For one thing
I had known Michelle for ten years and had considered her a friend. Also when I
was at the first Days of the Dead in Indianapolis Michelle was hanging out with
me and The Wolf Pack a lot during the conventions and was even kissing on me on
three separate occasions (This information is supported by the entire Wolf Pack
in The Eric Morse Project radio show, The Truth). So, basically she played with
my feelings in order to get me to support her. And, yes I supported her until I
found the profile and also found out from that very profile that Michelle had a
long term boyfriend (of course one I didn’t know about when she was shining my
teeth with her tongue) because she had conveniently kept the information to
herself and always posted her status as single on her other profiles. Anyway, I
posted a non-gender, non-focused on Michelle note on Facebook about what people
thought of actors and actresses who had long term relationships and played
around with other entertainers or even fans at conventions. I had confided
about the situation with Michelle to my friend, Henry, and he ended up calling
Michelle out on it on a comment to the note. Michelle blamed me and blocked me.
I apologized to her and she unblocked me a few days later. What I hadn’t known
at the time was Michelle went off and royally started talking smack about me
while I was blocked. She called me a stalker, a fat pervert, and even tried to
make out that I had mental issues. She even said at the time that if I even
tried to apologize for the situation “she would make me pay.” And she did. Even
though I tried to be nice and bury the hatchet, so to speak, after she
unblocked me she acted like a total bitch to me. Then some asshat started
giving me shit and saying I and my crew never hung out with Michelle at Days of
the Dead, though it was seen by everyone at the convention, and at one point
Michelle said aloud in front of the Fangoria table that we, The Wolf Pack, were
the coolest guys at the convention. Anyway, I got sick of the bullshit and
posted a picture of Michelle hanging out at our table. Michelle posted on the
picture that she wasn’t hanging out that she came over because Derek needed to
ask her a question. In the picture she was clearly standing in front of me and
looking towards me. So I posted that that was bullshit and that there were other
pictures and videos showing her at our table a lot at that convention. She blew
her stack called me and my crew delusional liars and blocked me again. And,
according to a friend she once again insulted me on her profile, called me a
delusional pervert, and a stalker again. So, guys out there who have sucked
face with Michelle at a convention, if you brag and talk about your experience
you’ll get called a delusional pervert and a stalker as a thank you for your
snoogling. For you see, her boyfriend is stupid enough to believe everything
she says so he remains totally clueless to her convention antics to this day…
The crux of the problem is that now a days women use the
term stalker in the same way as the term sexual harassment. Again, I’m not
saying that sexual harassment doesn’t exist. The truth is it does happen
unfortunately and I feel bad for the women who go through this, but there are
others, like people like Michelle Shields in regard to the word stalker, that
use the term sexual harassment as a weapon to use against men.
I recall two blaring examples of this…One happened on the TV
talk show Montel. Montel Williams was talking about sexual harassment and had a
woman on the show who had actually been sued by six men she had worked with for
falsely making false sexual harassment charges against them. Montel ended up
asking her a couple very revealing questions. He asked her if, say, a guy she
found attractive and had known at the office came up to her and casually asked
her out to dinner would that be sexual harassment? She laughed and said of
course that wasn’t sexual harassment. Then Montel asked her the same question
but said it was a guy she didn’t find really attractive. She said that was
definitely sexual harassment. Montel asked why, because after all the guy
wasn’t being rude or aggressive and was just asking her casually. She said the
guy needed to learn a lesson, not to bother her if he doesn’t meet her
standards. I found that amusing. Another, similar situation happened to a
teenaged boy who asked a popular girl at his school if she’d go with him to the
prom. She went off on him and made an accusation of sexual harassment to the
school. This got into the local paper and a church group in the town posted a
picture of the kid and put him on their sexual predator website. That was in
1998 and the church refused to pull him off the website. Since then the guy’s
family has been in a constant fighting this bullshit in court and the poor guy
needs to register with the police if he moves, has been rejected for jobs, and
deal with the rest of the stigma of being called a sexual harasser simply for
asking a girl to the prom….nice.
So, here is the moral of this blog….unless you are being
threatened and constantly being bothered or followed, or some person you work
with is really being pushy and rude about wanting to get together with you or
is expecting sexual favors for promotion the person in question is not a
stalker or sexual harasser. So, if this is the case, you need to shut the fuck
up and stop wrongly accusing these poor people as such. You are not cool or
fabulous for doing this shit. You are just plain wrong. So get a fucking clue
people…
